May 2, 2011

As I was growing up, I often wondered what kind of a woman I would turn out to be. Would I fall madly in love, marry and be the good housewife? Would I be a powerful career woman, or an influential politician? Like many young girls, I’d even dreamed of meeting Prince Charming and living happily ever after in a palace. Just like Kate Middleton!

Today, I look at myself in the mirror to see the woman I’ve turned out to be. I ask myself what kind of legacy would I want to leave behind? How can I give back to society in return for all the blessings that have been showered on me?

These questions have led me to think about the various women who have influenced me and made an impression on me. My mother showed me how to truly give. She was a shining example of unconditional love. My mother-in-law is so much like my mother. This remarkable woman has taught me kindness, elegance and the spirit of unstoppable energy. At 78, she is doing grueling 5-hour hikes; plays bridge; volunteers at the local church and has the time to spend on her other hobbies. I definitely want to be like her when I turn 78!

I am grateful to my sisters and all my female friends who have given me love and inspiration, and taught me integrity. This Mother’s Day is dedicated to them and to all mothers out there.

Sincerely,

Mindy

Make Mother’s Day special

This mother’s day is the perfect time to reflect and thank the various woman who have influenced you and made you the person you are today. Make them feel special by showing how much you love and care for them. Here are some simple gift ideas:

1) For the Glam Mom: Spoil her with the latest purse, a trendy cuff bracelet or some pretty lip color from her favorite cosmetic brand. Something simple and chic is certain to please her.

2) For the Professional Mom: Always armed with a suit and her Blackberry, this mom will surely love a gift that will improve her efficiency. A travel charger adapter, portable hard drive or a subscription to a business magazine. And to relax, a bottle of her favorite wine or a spa voucher would be most welcome.

3) The Geek Mom: How about getting her a camera or accessory for her computer? Or a solar-powered gadget, like a flashlight or small oven, that she can show off to her friends?

4) The Intellectual Mom: For the mom who loves to read, how about an e-reader? The Kindle, Nook or Kobo are great gifts that will allow her to carry her favorite books around effortlessly.

5) The Adventurer Mom: If your mom is one who loves an adrenaline rush, how about lessons for ballroom dancing, scuba diving or rock climbing?

Whatever the gift that you choose, she will be touched by your thoughtfulness.